The Money Blog

Where are you today? 

Are you in a season of transition? 

Or a valley, longing for that mountaintop?  Or desperate for even just a plateau, as long as it's not the valley or desert anymore?! 

I'...

"I can't take much more, he's making me crazy!" 

“Is it her, or am I the one losing my mind?!"

Have you ever said this? Ever had a friend or loved one share these sentiments with you?

Abusers see e...

Not sure if what you're experiencing in a relationship is abuse?

Is there a common pattern of behavior that happens when you tell the person "no?" 

If there is a consistent behavior of punishment of...

Is couples counseling with an abuser a good idea?

In a domestic violent/abusive relationship, you do not have two normal range, healthy individuals with the same relational agenda in the relationship...

...a creative writing exercise... 

Victim Survivor: I’m being abused.

Other Person: What? Oh no! What can you do to make it stop?

VS: I can try telling him no. 

(later)

Now I’m being abused w...

How many of you have sought counseling for help with your "conflicts" in your relationship, when really what you needed help with was the abuse, or violence, in your relationship?

Relational abuse is...

**Trigger Warning: psychological + emotional abuse

Wife: Did you spend this $195 I see in our account?

Husband: No, I don't know what you're talking about.

W: The $195 to Dick's Sporting Goods? ...